Balancing Marriage and Your Children’s Needs

In this series, focused on Blended Families, we’ve explored the challenges and opportunities of blended families, how children are affected by divorce and the art of step-parenting. Today, we explore the reality and necessity of balancing the needs of your marriage with the needs of your children. This balancing act, can sometimes make you feel as if you’re walking a tight rope. Yet, it can be done in a way that nurtures your entire family and everyone in it.

Balancing Marriage and Children

On the one hand, you have the short-term and long-term needs of your spouse.  Meeting these needs are important to the long-term health of your marriage.

On the other hand, there are the needs of your children and step-children. Meeting these needs are critical to the rest of their lives, well into adulthood.

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Blended Families: How Step-Parents Can Bond with Step-Children

In our Blended Families series, we’ve taken a look at how blended families are a team sport, the unique challenges and opportunities blended families face, how children are affected by divorce and what it means for your new family, and how you can work together as a couple to make a real difference in your blended family.  Now we take a look at the step-parent, step-children relationship and how you can, as the new parent figure in the family, create a lasting bond with your step-child.

How to Step-Parent

Welcome to Step-Parenting

Welcome to the world of step-parenting.  Step-parenting is a world that confounds many and leaves them feeling completely incompetent, at times.  Fret not, you are NOT alone.  Yes, step-parenting can be one of the most challenging aspects of your new family–you’re not sure what to do, what to say, how to begin–but its also the most potentially rewarding and beneficial journey you’ll embark on.

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#MiningForGold Weekly: 7 Resources Worth Your Time

Every day we scour the Internet for resources to help our clients learn and grow together.  From advice on how to spice up your marriage to financial advice to practical tips on facing the challenges of marriage together.  This week, we’ve found 7 excellent resources that are worth a read.  As they say, knowledge is power and this is certainly the case in relationships.

7 Reads Worthy of Your Time

These articles will help you build a bright financial future together, making scrap booking romantic, sex and more.

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