Blended Families: A Team Sport

Given divorce rates, and, recent data like the top 9 states for remarriage – it’s no wonder that blended families are the new normal. There was a time, in this country (not too long ago we might add) when divorce and blended families were few and far between (barring extreme circumstances). And while we certainly will not try to make this series a social statement about marriage, divorce and how our society has changed. We’ll just assume that it has–dramatically.

Blended Families

What we’re here to talk about, are the many challenges that blended families face and the new normal for thousands of families. The truth is, whether you two work together or not–what you do, good or bad, will not only affect your children, but their children and their children after them.

Blended families, can often feel like swimming upstream–working so hard, feeling as if you’re always taking one step forward and two steps backward.

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Does Watching Porn Lead to Divorce?

Marriage Affairs and Forgiveness

While there are many who condemn pornography as a horrific evil in our society and a dividing influence over married men and their wives. The fact is that a lot of people are using it. And, our experience in couples counseling has shown us porn has a significant impact on marriages and the increasing rates in divorces. Take a look at the facts:

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Marriage Affairs: Forgiveness and Your Future

Marriage Affairs and Forgiveness

Couples who experience the devastation of affairs, often struggle to develop the one skill that could literally mean the difference between restoration and destruction. Our marriage counseling experience has shown us, without true forgiveness, there can be no future together for you.

Forgiveness does not mean that you will forget what happened. What it means that while you will not forget it, you have decided to accept it and move forward with your lives without continually digging up the past.

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