Private Marriage & Couples Counseling

For more than 30 years we have grown together as a married couple while also working with hundreds of couples who came to us for marriage counseling. Our professional work includes published articles, teleseminars, weekend workshops, radio programs, and our recently published book, Mining for Gold in Your Relationship.

30 Years Successful Experience

We have worked successfully with couples who, just like you, were tired of having the same frustrating circular arguments over and over again. We will teach you the same proven 5-step Mining for Gold process so you can finally feel understood, appreciated, and closer together in deeper and more intimate ways that make marriage fun again.

* The Mining for Gold approach explains how the differences which lead to frustrations are actually a natural part of what originally attracted you to each other. Using insights from brain studies and major psychological research, we can help you look at the story of your relationship in a fresh new way.

* Mining for Gold aims to establish or reestablish a healthy, safe, mutually beneficial dialogue. Learn a simple, respectful and effective way to talk with your partner about the things that really matter without blame, shame, or criticism.

* Begin right away to experience a stronger connection that comes through attentive hearing and being deeply heard in an emotionally safe environment. Then surprising answers to age-old conflicts will automatically emerge.

We know what it takes to have an enduring, satisfying relationship – and that it requires more than just memories of the romantic feelings that first attracted us to one another. The idea that love alone sustains marriage, without personal and interpersonal work, is a myth. But it is also a misconception that it has to be all work and no play. The investment of time, energy, or money that goes into enhancing a relationship is like an effort to uncover gold. The rewards are rare and priceless and reap benefits for life.

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