</h1> <article> <h1>Comment on 100 Questions Before Marriage: What You Need to Know About Me by Tweets that mention 100 Questions Before Marriage: What You Need to Know About Me — Mining for Gold -- Topsy.com</h1> <p>Sun, 29 Aug 2010 15:05:45 +0000</p> <p>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by jesseandmelva and Jesse Melva Johnson, Jesse Melva Johnson. Jesse Melva Johnson said: 100 Questions Before Marriage: What You Need to Know About Me <a href="http://ow.ly/2vbco" rel="nofollow">http://ow.ly/2vbco</a> [...]</p> </article> <article> <h1>Comment on 100 Questions Before Marriage: What You Need to Know About Me by 100 Questions Before Marriage: Your Purpose Your Past — Mining for Gold</h1> <p>100 Questions Before Marriage: Your Purpose Your Past — Mining for Gold — Fri, 27 Aug 2010 20:52:27 +0000</p> <p>[...] 100 Questions Before Marriage: Part 1, Part 2, and Part 3 [...]</p> </article> <article> <h1>Comment on Marriage & Couples Counseling by 100 Questions Before Marriage: Your Purpose Your Past — Mining for Gold</h1> <p>100 Questions Before Marriage: Your Purpose Your Past — Mining for Gold — Fri, 27 Aug 2010 20:52:11 +0000</p> <p>[...] for GoldCouples and Marriage Counseling, Imago Workshops, Pre-Marital Counseling Marriage Counseling · Pre-Marital [...]</p> </article> <article> <h1>Comment on Pre-Marital Counseling by 100 Questions Before Marriage: Attitudes About Sex, Money, and Household Maintenance — Mining for Gold</h1> <p>Wed, 25 Aug 2010 15:08:57 +0000</p> <p>[...] Workshops, Pre-Marital Counseling Marriage Counseling · Pre-Marital Counseling · Imago [...]</p> </article> <article> <h1>Comment on Why Some Men Won’t Communicate In Marriage by Jesse Johnson</h1> <p>Jesse Johnson — Sat, 14 Aug 2010 00:01:15 +0000</p> <p>It appears that you have been exploring various ways for you and your husband to resolve this issue. Yet, in spite of all of your best efforts, your husband seems to find a way of not participating in various possible solutions. I imagine that this, in addition to not having sex for months, must be added frustration to the situation. </p> <p>I wouldn’t be surprised if your husband was not extremely depressed. This might explain why he has been unwilling to participate in the various options you’ve suggested. I would highly recommend that both of you try some individual counseling first. He needs to address his underlying emotional feelings because of his dysfunction and his possible depression. He’s probably not feeling very good about himself right now and is likely to need help dealing with all this. I’m hoping that he will go because, based on my experience working with him like him, he needs the help!</p> <p>I suggest that you get counseling for yourself to sort through your feelings and to consider various options related to this issue. There may be options that you have not considered. </p> <p>Finally, I’d suggest that you stop posting on the dating sites for now. Such posting is likely to intensify your frustration and I don’t think that this is helpful to you right now. </p> <p>My sincere best wishes to you, regardless of the outcome.</p> <p>Jesse</p> </article> <article> <h1>Comment on Why Some Men Won’t Communicate In Marriage by Melva Johnson</h1> <p>Melva Johnson — Sat, 14 Aug 2010 00:00:27 +0000</p> <p>My heart opened up to you when I read your message. Your frustration, disappointment and pain makes so much sense. No woman wants to beg for anything from her husband – including sex. I applaud you for being proactive and inviting your husband to respond to you and take care of himself and your relationship with medical care for him and marriage counseling for both of you to preserve your marriage. </p> <p>Here is my recommendation: Stay away from the dating sites for now. Even though your husband doesn’t't believe that you will follow through on that or that you will file for divorce. At this point both actions might make things worse. You best bet, in my opinion, is to get help for yourself with a therapist who specializes in marriage counseling. He or she will assist you to work through what must be a devastating experience for you. You can also look for help in presenting your message in a way your husband can hear as well as explore additional options to support and care for you and celebrate your womanhood. </p> <p>Wishing you the best,<br /> Melva</p> </article> <article> <h1>Comment on Why Some Men Won’t Communicate In Marriage by loveless marriage</h1> <p>loveless marriage — Wed, 11 Aug 2010 17:55:45 +0000</p> <p>Married for 8 years to a man who recently was diagnosed with erectile dysfunction. Eight-nine months have passed and there has been no sex between us. No attempts by him at all. He refuses to let me buy him a pump, does not believe in performing other types of sex, such as oral sex, tells me to masterbate if I’m craving sex, tells me I’m “badgering” him and to leave him alone, recently cancelled his appointment his physician set up to see a urologist and agrees to schedule marriage councelling appointments and does not follow through.</p> <p>I’ve recently posted my profile on a dating service and told him that I’ve done it. He doesn’t act as though he believes me — but it’s true. I have other men contact me for a date and get really excited when contacted. I have shared with my husband that I have considered filing for a divorce but he doesn’t believe I’ll go through with it.</p> <p>I’m not going to beg for sex from him; just want to enjoy life like a woman should. What do you think?</p> </article> <article> <h1>Comment on Marriage Advice: Power of Forgiveness by Dean S</h1> <p>Dean S — Fri, 06 Aug 2010 15:02:09 +0000</p> <p>Unforgiveness not only holds down the offender, it also holds down the offended. In marriage counseling, I have found that the problems usually began at a place where there was unforgiveness. I recommend to couples that they practice forgiveness on a daily basis.</p> </article> <article> <h1>Comment on Marriage Advice: Power of Forgiveness by Tweets that mention Marriage Advice: Power of Forgiveness — Marriage Counseling | Pre-Marital Counseling | Imago Workshops -- Topsy.com</h1> <p>Thu, 05 Aug 2010 18:39:29 +0000</p> <p>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by Miles Fortesque and Marriage Counsel, Wendy Rawley. Wendy Rawley said: Marriage Advice: Power of Forgiveness — Marriage Counseling | Pre …: Forgiveness in marriage is an important par… <a href="http://bit.ly/9Vo8Xu" rel="nofollow">http://bit.ly/9Vo8Xu</a> [...]</p> </article> <article> <h1>Comment on Open Marriage: Just Say No! by Tweets that mention Open Marriage: Just Say No! — Marriage Counseling | Pre-Marital Counseling | Imago Workshops -- Topsy.com</h1> <p>Thu, 05 Aug 2010 00:07:42 +0000</p> <p>[...] This post was mentioned on Twitter by jesseandmelva, Jesse Melva Johnson. Jesse Melva Johnson said: Wow, we're loving the discussion on "open marriages" from our readers. Good stuff! <a href="http://mfgmarriage.com/a0g" rel="nofollow">http://mfgmarriage.com/a0g</a> [...]</p> </article> </main></body></html>